
Podcast by Nicole Burnett
Podcast by Nicole Burnett
01 October 2025
Here’s the thing nobody likes to admit out loud:
You can have the horse. You can have the talent. You can put in the hours. You can even be confident in every other part of your life… and still feel like a complete rookie when your nerves take over in the saddle.
That’s exactly what happened to my client, Bonnie Habel, an APHA rider who shows trail and horsemanship with her mare, Morgan. She had the horse. She had the training. She had the drive. But at the Paint World Show, all of that went out the window when her nerves hijacked her ride.
In today’s episode, Bonnie shares what really happens when the spiral sets in, and how working inside the Mental Gym for Equestrians helped her flip the script. This isn’t a highlight reel—it’s the real, raw transformation of a rider who went from rattled and disconnected to grounded, collected, and genuinely excited about her rides again.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach, @resilientreiner, and Bonnie on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I’m curious to hear your takeaways and what part of Bonnie’s story resonated most with you.
And hey, if you loved it, please take a minute to leave a review on iTunes—it helps other riders discover the show and find the same breakthroughs.
In This Episode You Will Learn:
Questions I Answer (with Bonnie’s story woven in):
LINK/RESOURCES:
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16 September 2025
Let me tell you the truth that not everybody knows….
If you’re not training your brain, you’re still training it.
That tight breath before a run? Training.
That anxious thought before you even tack up? Training.
Just like your horse learns from every moment with you—so does your brain.
In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the real reason why mental rehearsal for riders isn’t fluff—it’s science. We’re talking mirror neurons, visualization, and how your nervous system doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined. It’s not about “pretending” to be confident. It’s about literally rewiring your system to perform under pressure—and helping your horse feel that clarity, too.
Whether you’re gearing up for a big show, rebuilding confidence after a bad fall, or just trying to feel more like yourself in the saddle…this episode will change the way you think about mental prep.
If this episode had your brain buzzing or helped shift the way you ride—don’t keep it to yourself!
Tag me on Instagram @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner and share it with someone who could use this edge. I’d love to hear what part hit home for you. And hey—if you’ve got 30 seconds to spare, leave a review on iTunes. It helps other riders find the tools they need, too!
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:
QUESTIONS I ANSWER:
LINK/RESOURCES:
If you’ve ever stood at the in-gate wondering why your body won’t cooperate, this episode is your answer.
Your mind isn’t just reacting to the pressure—it’s remembering what it’s been trained to expect.
You don’t have to “fake” confidence anymore. You can train it.
And if you want to build the kind of mental game that supports your horse, performs under pressure, and shows up with calm clarity every time—you know where to find me.
-Nicole
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09 September 2025
Get ready to not GAF about what anyone else thinks. Here’s the truth no one tells you: You could have perfect posture, flawless cues, and a dang good run—but if your brain is spinning about what the judge, your trainer, or that one rider on the rail thinks of you… it won’t matter.
This episode is your wake-up call and your permission slip: You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You just need to ride for your horse. Because when you do, everything changes—from your mindset to your score sheet. I’m breaking down how I help my riders shut out the noise and stay locked in with confidence, no matter who’s watching.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I’m seriously curious to hear about your “aha” moments or what clicked for you. Also, take a second to leave a review on iTunes—it helps more riders like you discover the show and build unstoppable confidence.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:
QUESTIONS I ANSWER:
Links/Resources:
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04 September 2025
Have you ever walked out of the arena and thought, That wasn’t my best ride…?
Maybe you’ve felt that heavy weight of chasing the win—the score, the title, the validation—only to realize it’s pulling you away from what truly matters: being in the moment with your horse.
In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful mindset shift that can completely change how you approach competition and your riding as a whole. It’s all about focusing on small wins instead of obsessing over the importance of any given run. This isn’t just about feeling good—it’s about riding better. I’ll share the story of a rider who made this exact shift and saw her scores jump two full points. If you’re ready to leave the pressure to win at the gate and start riding your best, this episode is for you.
If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to hear about it! Tag me on Instagram at @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner to share your story. What’s one small win you’re focusing on this week? And don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes—it helps other riders find the show and start their own mental performance journey. Together, we’re building a stronger, more confident riding community.
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19 August 2025
You don’t need to be stronger to sit the stop—you need to feel safer.
Sounds backwards, right? But that’s exactly what I see trip up even the most talented riders in the arena. They’re told to sit deep and stay soft—but no one talks about how to do that when your brain is screaming “Danger!” the moment your horse locks in for the slide.
In today’s episode, I’m answering a question straight from a rider in our community who asked, “Nicole, how the heck do I sit at the sliding stop without bracing or getting thrown forward?” And if you've ever felt like a sack of potatoes or a ragdoll flung around during your stops, trust me—you are not alone, and you are not broken. You're just dealing with a very normal, very human nervous system response.
This episode is all about showing you how to work with your body—not against it—so you can ride your stops with softness, clarity, and confidence. If you’ve been gripping with your thighs, holding your breath, or tensing up when the pressure’s on… this one’s for you.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag me @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I’m always curious to hear your stories, your takeaways, and your progress. And don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes—it helps more riders find the support they need. 🤠
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Questions I Answer:
Links/Resources:
Whether you’re working on sitting your stops, rebuilding after a tough ride, or just trying to get out of your own head—remember this: your horse doesn’t need perfection. They need presence.
And presence starts with safety.
Safety allows softness.
And softness? That’s the secret to a powerful, beautiful stop.
You’ve got this.
Let’s ride. 🤠
Nicole
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05 August 2025
You can have the best-trained horse in the warm-up pen… and still lose.
I know that sounds harsh, but I’ve seen it too many times to ignore. A rider pours months—heck, years—into perfecting every detail of their horse’s training. The circles are round, the stops are deep, the lead changes are smooth as butter. And yet, when the pressure’s on? They choke. Not because they’re not good enough—but because they never trained their mind to handle the moment.
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many talented riders hit a ceiling they can’t break through. It’s not about talent. It’s not about horsepower. It’s about what’s happening between your ears. If you’ve ever walked out of the arena thinking, “My horse was ready, but I wasn’t,” this one’s for you.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I’m always curious to hear about your experience. Also, don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes to help more riders discover the show.
In This Episode You Will Learn:
Questions I Answer:
🚀 Ready For Your Own Mental Breakthrough? Here’s How:
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