
Podcast by Nicole Burnett

Podcast by Nicole Burnett

09 September 2026
Here’s a horse-show mystery for you: how can you ride like you know exactly what you’re doing on Wednesday… and by Saturday feel like somebody swapped riders on you? 😂
Your horse didn’t erase three months of training on the trailer ride over. And you didn’t suddenly forget how to ride because somebody handed you a back number.
But pressure DOES change things.
And this is where I see so many really capable western riders get frustrated. They know what their horse feels like at home. They know they can ride well. Then they get into the warm-up pen, everything starts feeling a little more important, and suddenly they’re thinking faster, trying harder, second-guessing themselves, and wondering where the heck their normal riding went.
So in this episode, we’re talking about the gap between the rider you are at home and the rider who shows up at horse shows—and why closing that gap isn’t always about more lessons, more practice, or trying harder.
I’m breaking down what pressure can change in your body, focus, timing, and decision-making, why your horse may start feeling different because YOU feel different, and what real confidence under pressure actually looks like.
Because I don’t want you spending another show season wondering, “Why can’t I just ride like myself when it counts?”
There’s a reason. And more importantly, it’s trainable. 🐴🔥
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag me @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your horse-show crew!
I am genuinely curious to hear about your experience—especially if you’re one of those riders who can absolutely nail it at home and then feels completely different once you get to the show.
And be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help other western riders discover the show!
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Get EveryHorse Training Tracker here
Android Riders: The Android version is built! Google requires a testing period before public release, so reach out if you’d like to help test EveryHorse.
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02 September 2026
Friday rolls around and Monday somehow feels like it happened three weeks ago. You’re standing at the barn thinking, Wait… when did I ride this horse last? What did we work on? Was that the ride where something finally clicked—or was that the other horse?
That was me. I was tired of carrying every horse’s training program around in my head, and after years of searching for an app that tracked the actual training—not vet records, invoices, or GPS miles—I finally decided to build it myself.
In this episode, I’m sharing the story behind EveryHorse Training Tracker, how I’m using it with my own horses, and the unexpected way getting my horse training out of my head has actually helped me become more consistent in the saddle. Because the 10-minute rides, groundwork sessions, conditioning days, and tiny pieces you work on before the breakthrough? They count, too.
In This Episode You Will Learn:
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🎯 EveryHorse Training Tracker 🐴
Available now for iPhone in the Apple App Store. Search EveryHorse Training Tracker and look for the green horse icon. Every feature is free to try for seven days.
Get EveryHorse Training Tracker here
Android Riders: The Android version is built! Google requires a testing period before public release, so reach out if you’d like to help test EveryHorse.
🎯 5 Days to Confident Competitor
Stop “show nerves” and saddle up with swagger.
👉 https://nicoleburnettcoaching.thrivecart.com/5-days-to-confident-competitor/
🎯 Mental Gym for Equestrians
Train your mind like a pro so you ride like one.
👉 https://mentalgymforequestrians.com/
🎯 Free Weekly Mental Coaching Tips
Get rider-specific mindset tools in your inbox. Join my email list here.
👉https://www.resilientreiner.com/
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag me @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your barn friends and western riding community! I am curious to hear all about your experience.
Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help other riders discover the show.
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14 July 2026
It is a horse race, after all.
You ever been at a barrel race where somebody says to you,
“Man… my horse just felt off today.”
And meanwhile you watched the whole thing happen before they even made it to the first barrel.
The rider got tight in the alley.
Started checking instead of riding.
Second-guessed the approach.
Tried so hard not to miss that they quit riding freely altogether.
Here’s the hard truth nobody really talks about enough in the horse world:
A lot of barrel racers are not losing time because their horse lacks speed.
They’re losing time because pressure changes how they ride.
And the frustrating part? Most riders do not even realize it’s happening while it’s happening.
In this episode, I’m diving into 5 things that can genuinely help you clock a faster barrel racing time — and none of them involve just kicking harder or asking your horse for more speed.
Because yes, your horse matters.
Your training matters.
Your pattern matters.
But your nervous system matters too.
The way you go down the alley matters.
The way you recover after a weird approach matters.
The way you talk to yourself before a run matters.
And if your brain is spiraling while your horse is trying to do their job, that’s going to show up on the clock every single time.
We’re talking about the mental side of barrel racing that riders feel every weekend but rarely know how to train for — overthinking, hesitation, pressure, tightness, adrenaline, second-guessing, and the difference between riding careful versus riding committed.
This episode is for the rider who knows there is more speed in there… but also knows something changes once competition pressure shows up.
And honestly?
That does not mean you are weak.
It means you are human.
Let’s talk about how to ride through that better.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I am curious to hear all about your experience. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help others discover the show.
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07 July 2026
There’s a moment a lot of riders don’t talk about out loud…
You swing off your horse, loosen the cinch, and instead of feeling better—you feel smaller. Quieter. A little unsure of yourself.
And here’s the hard truth no one says in the barn aisle:
Not every “tough” trainer is actually making you better.
In this episode, we’re getting honest about a topic that comes up way more than people admit—how to tell the difference between a coach who’s pushing you to grow and one who’s quietly tearing down your confidence, your decision-making, and your relationship with your horse.
Because in the western world, we’ve normalized a lot in the name of grit, discipline, and results. But there’s a line. And if you’ve ever walked away from a ride feeling confused, ashamed, or like you’re losing your voice… we need to talk about it.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I am curious to hear all about your experience.
Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help others discover the show. 🤍🐎
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01 July 2026
It’s the crown jewel of reining. A fan favorite to watch. And a rider favorite to perform.
Yet you can have the horse, the training, and the maneuver… and still leave points in the pen.
Here’s the part riders don’t always want to hear—most missed sliding stops aren’t lost in the dirt… they’re lost 30 feet before the marker. Right in that rundown where everything should feel simple, but suddenly your body tightens, your mind jumps ahead, and your horse feels you check out.
In this episode, I’m breaking down why your sliding stop isn’t actually a “stop problem.” It’s a pressure problem. A timing problem. A presence problem. And once you see it, you won’t be able to unsee it.
We’re talking about what really changes in your body when the speed goes up, why anticipation quietly steals your score, and how to stay committed all the way through the maneuver so your horse can actually show you what they’ve got.
Because the goal isn’t to try harder at the marker.
It’s to become the kind of rider your horse can trust all the way down the pen.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach @resilientreiner and @[GuestInstagramHandle] on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I am curious to hear all about your experience. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help others discover the show.
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24 June 2026
You can’t fake speed. But it can be so hard to feel comfortable with the speed required to plus your stops, chase down your cow, or win the barrel race.
I’ve watched riders ask for more go… then shut it down in the very next stride without even realizing it. Hands get busy, bodies get tight, and suddenly the same rider who wanted more speed is now trying to survive it. And the horse? They feel every bit of that mixed message.
In this episode, we’re getting real about what’s actually happening when speed feels messy, scary, or out of control in the saddle. Because this isn’t about “just being braver” or “kicking harder.” This is about how your body interprets speed—and whether your horse experiences you as clear… or conflicted.
We’re going to break down why speed isn’t the problem—it’s the mirror. And how learning to stay present, organized, and steady when the energy goes up is what actually creates confidence, connection, and clean performance—whether you’re in the show pen, working cattle, or just loping at home trying to feel more in sync with your horse.
If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I am curious to hear all about your experience. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to help others discover the show.
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