#167 My Horse Only Went In Reverse

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Ever felt like you’re stuck in reverse? Like no matter how hard you try, you’re not moving forward—not in your riding, your mindset, or even your life? I’ve been there. And let me tell you, I’ve had a horse who quite literally refused to go forward, no matter how patiently or clearly I asked.

This episode is about what I learned from that experience—and trust me, the lessons go far beyond groundwork. Because whether you’re working with a tricky horse or tackling your own mental blocks, the truth is the same: there are no shortcuts to lasting success. The “long way,” as frustrating as it feels, is what builds confidence, trust, and results that stick.

So, grab your coffee, saddle up, and let’s chat about why the hard stuff isn’t forever, how to stay the course, and why the long way truly is the shortcut.

If this episode resonates with you—or if you know someone who’s in the thick of it—tag me @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram. I’d love to hear how this episode hits home for you, what you’re working through, and how you’re staying committed to your journey. Don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes—it’s one of the best ways to help more riders find this podcast!

In This Episode You Will Learn:

Why the “long way” is the only way to real progress (and why shortcuts often backfire).
How breaking challenges into tiny, manageable steps makes the impossible feel possible.
Why nothing stays hard forever and how to shift your mindset in tough moments.
The importance of building trust—whether with your horse or yourself—and how it transforms everything.
Practical strategies for staying patient and resilient when you’re tempted to quit.

Questions I Answer:

What do you do when things feel like they’ll never get easier?
How do you keep going when progress feels painfully slow?
What’s the connection between training a horse and training your mindset?
How can small wins build momentum for big results?

🔗 LINKS / RESOURCES:

🎯 5 Days to Confident Competitor. Stop ‘show nerves’ and saddle up with swagger! https://nicoleburnettcoaching.thrivecart.com/5-days-to-confident-competitor/
🎯 Resilient Reiner Academy → The confidence to win so you ride like you belong. Sign up here! https://www.nicoleburnettcoaching.com/resilientreineracademy
🎯 Get Free Weekly Mental Coaching Tips → Join my email list! Subscribe here

When things feel impossibly hard, I want you to remember this: hard doesn’t last forever. Whether you’re struggling with a training challenge, battling show-day nerves, or rebuilding confidence, remind yourself that this is for NOW, not forever. The long way—the patient, intentional, step-by-step way—will get you where you want to go. Stay committed to your journey, and trust in the process.

Ride on,

Nicole