#160 What I Saw On Horseback Last Week Still Gives Me Goosebumps

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Here’s a hot take: Confidence has nothing to do with ribbons or high scores.

Last week, I was riding through wide-open country, soaking up a scene that looked like it came straight out of an old western film—bison off the trail, a bald eagle overhead, and a sunset that nearly stopped me in my tracks. But what gave me goosebumps wasn't just the view. It was the feeling. Of being grounded. Present. At peace with my horse and myself.

In this episode, I’m sharing the story behind that ride and the powerful reminder it gave me: we’re not building confidence to impress anyone—we’re building it so we can live. If your brain’s been stuck in “what if” mode or talking you out of the rides you actually want to be on, this one’s for you.

If this episode resonated with you—or you know a rider who needs to hear this message—be sure to tag me @nicoleburnettmentalcoach and @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I love hearing how these episodes land for you. And don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes so other riders can discover the podcast too!

In This Episode You Will Learn:

Why confidence has to come before the ribbons, not after
What your brain is really doing when it talks you out of something
How fear can show up even when your horse is ready
The deeper reason we work on mindset—and how it fuels the rides of your dreams
To stop waiting until you “feel ready” to do the bold, badass things you’re dreaming of

Questions I Answer:

What does confidence actually look like outside the arena?
Why does your brain keep convincing you to play small—even when you’re ready?
How do you train your mind to stop second-guessing and start saying yes to your life on horseback?

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🎧 Now, hit play & let’s celebrate these incredible wins together!

You don’t have to earn the adventure. You just need to trust yourself enough to go live it.

See ya out there,

Nicole 🤠