Resilient Reiner

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Nicole Burnett

29 October 2024

7m 29s

#135 The Ugly Truth No Trainer Will Tell You

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Ever feel like you’re doing all the right things—spending more time in the saddle, working with the best trainers, maybe even riding an exceptional horse—but somehow, you’re still not seeing the progress you want? 

Here’s the truth that no one tells you: it’s not about the horse or the trainer. 

It’s about YOU!

In this episode, we dive into the unseen side of progression as a rider, the side where your confidence and belief in yourself matter far more than any training program. 

I’m breaking down why waiting for someone else to build your confidence is a losing game and how taking ownership of your mental game is the only way to achieve that next level.

If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode, be sure to tag us @nicoleburnettmentalcoach @resilientreiner on Instagram and share this episode with your community! I’m curious to hear all about your experience. Also, don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes to help others discover the show.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Why more lessons, trainers, or top-tier horses won’t solve your confidence issues
  • How relying on others to build your confidence keeps you stuck
  • What it means to build “mental muscles” as a rider and why it’s essential to progress
  • Real strategies for developing unshakable self-belief and mental strength
  • Steps to stop waiting for permission to believe in yourself and own your rides

Questions I Answer:

  • What are the key mindset traps that hold riders back?
  • Why doesn’t more training guarantee more confidence?
  • How can mental rehearsal and visualization transform my riding? (this can work for you too!)
  • What’s the one thing you can’t “outsource” in your riding journey?

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Happy Trails,

Nicole